You need to speak in a friendly tone; don't treat eachothers bad. If you don't do the kids just go haywire and become insane, going bananas through the medication overload and diagnoses. Try living without it. Some of you sound drunk on medication.
Furthermore. Why these differences? And what does it bother? Everyone is not equal and very unique, one of a kind, each one. One's head, not another's experience; they are unique, universes, multiverses, dimensions, so to speak. It's impossible to agree on everything, but arguing about such small stuff just makes one wonder: do they sleep with a finger in their mouths and eat nails? Just fix the problems already. Russia vs. Ukraine was 5 years ago important. Now? Just a pain in the ass, really. Grow older, become friends, not enemies. Politics could've supported the poor with that military budget, making society a better place instead of wasting it on conflicts and deaths that should've been avoided. Its just a weapons war, not a war about people.